I told him a lot of fears I have of being thin and how I was not willing to go on another "diet" cuz I end up beating myself up and gaining from it; that I was eating healthier and had not gained in a year. I wanted him to know that I was not going into this blindly. I was aware of my fears. He took this as me needing to see a couselor and lose 20 lbs before he would release me. He was willing to talk to me by phone on occasion, which was very nice.